Everyday LOVE

Part of my job is to talk to my people, not once in awhile but as regular as possible. May it be casual or formal, I need to make sure I get in touch not only with their performance, but with their personal lives.

Our team is like a family. We know most of the things that are happening to us not only at work but outside too.

Kanina, during my coaching session with one of my team members, napag-usapan namin about relationships. For the weirdest part of this, I was having this conversation with someone I never expected to have that kind of talk.

But I was glad we had that conversation. It gave me this realization and thoughts were flying all over my brain (if i really have). Hehe.

This person was telling me their arguments and fights about simple things. Minsan daw di na niya maintindihan. Kung bakit minsan, ang simpleng bagay, lumalaki, or bakit pinapa-laki. Minsan naguguluhan na daw siya. And when they finally talk about it, parang lumalabas na naghahanap lang pala nang atensyon.

Example: Si Lover A tinext si Lover B. Tinatanong kung namimiss daw ba niya siya. Si Lover B, siyempre, sa kanya, oo. Pero dahil magkalayo sila, gusto lang malaman ni Lover A, or confirmation kung parehas sila nang nararamdaman kasi nami-miss ni Lover A si Lover B. Dahil hindi madalas mag-text si Lover B, feeling tuloy ni Lover A, they are not in a mutual feeling.

Nakaka-relate ako. Ganyan din ako sa love and relationship. For some reason, I want an "Everyday Love". Yung gusto ko nararamdaman ang love araw-araw. Yung parang renewal of vows sa marriage, sa akin, I want the love to be renewed everyday. Nakakapagod yun di ba. Hehe. Pero ako, di ako napapagod sa ganun. Nae-enjoy ko ang reltionship pag araw-araw kong nararamdaman yung love.

Oo, sa partner mo, pag nakipag-relasyon, automatic nang andoon yung love. Gagawin nang normal ang lahat. Settled na sila doon. Pero sa akin, at kay Lover A (I assume), importante ang napaparamdam mo ang pagmamahal everyday. Kung malayo kayo sa isa't isa, magtext, magtawagan. There are means of expressing your love. Kung magkasama kayo, a sweet note, a romantic line, a simple gesture. There is just so many ways to express love.

For me, attention is like love. That whenever your partner gives you attention, it's like a love is given. I can't say attention is equivalent to love. Basta, I just feel loved when an attention is given. Mababaw ako sa love. As in "yuck" na mababaw. Hehe. Simpleng cheesy na text lang, sumasaya na ako. Pag tinatawagan ako kahit saglit na minuto, kumpleto na araw ko.

Hindi importante sa akin ang fancy place in having dinner or lunch. Basta magkasama, kahit saan, solve na ako. Hindi rin ganun sobrang kaimportante ang activity na gagawin, basta kasama ko lang siya, sulit na ako. I'm a touchy person. Very expressive. Nang saya. Nang love. At nang tampo. (right Msytery Guy?) Hehe.

Masaya ako kasi our communication line is open daily. Kulang na nga lang mag-24 hours siya kasi round a clock kami. Gising ako sa gabi, tulog siya sa gabi. Tulog ako sa umaga, gising naman siya. Para kaming mga security guards noh?! Hehe. Shifting. But we make it work. Kaya nga minahal ko siya. Kasi very optimistic. He reminds me always that we can make it work. Sana nga.

Siguro nga, kung may ire-reklamo siya, yun yung matampuhin kong ugali. Hehe. Yes. Aminado ako diyan. And I'm proud of it. Hehe. Alam niyang pag di niya naparamdam yung love niya for me in a day, automatic, naka tampo mode na ako noon. Hehe. At in fairness, sobrang kilala na niya ako na alam niya agad kung nagtatampo ako kahit pinipilit kong itago. Hehe. Corny ko. Hihi.

I love LOVE. I enjoy it so much. Especially when love is given both ways. Sabi nga nila, masarap ma-in love, at ganun din kasakit pag nasira. But if it's there, I really enjoy it. I give love when there's an opportunity. And we make love when there is an opportunity too. Joke!!! Just kidding. Love is here to be shared.

Kaya wag kaming mamis-interpret kapag nagtatampo. Unang iniisip, ang babaw or what. But in fact, sa amin, hindi mababaw yun. Bakit? Kasi importante sa amin yun. Big deal ang small things. I just realized may mga tao pala talagang ganun tingnan ang love, ang relationship. Akala ko ako lang mag-isa. Hehe.

To all those who are in a relationship/marriage, share love when there's an opportunity. Because there are millions of it out there...