In Response to Umar

Umar:

Owssssssssss.....what a surprising lines about me and you. Hey Marco! you know me, right? My new account was created last week because my old fs account had some technical glitch which I cannot open my profile because everytime I open it, I am directly transferred to a new site.

I did not give more attention when you asked me if I had read your blog because at that time, I was in hurry but fortunately I did not report at office now because of my wounded toe caused by that rocky portion of LA Luz Resort in Laiya. Know what, am just wondering who is that anonymous guy who keeps on concocting issues about me because to tell you frankly am not committed to anybody else and what we have now is the same with before.

And I had told you already many times that nothing has changed. Since before, that was my problem with you, entertaining disturbing lines about me and sometimes you get perturbed to the extent of confronting me indirectly. Please..please..please... Walang katotohanan ang lahat.

At kung papayag ka, sabihin mo sa taong yan na meet tayong tatlo kung totoo man mga sinasabi nya at isa pa, ala akong oras sa ganyan dahil sa dami ng problema ko ngayon, di ko pag aaksayahan ng oras yan......

Musta gym mo? Sexy ka na ba? Hehehe! Iwas ka kasi sa pork para mabilis and development ng katawan mo....

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TL:

When I received your message at friendster, I did not open it immediately. I was afraid to read it. I don't know what it could contain. I wasn't ready yet. I had a lot of thoughts running in my head. But when I finally did it, kaya pala naguluhan ako sa message mo na parang walang kakone-koneksyon sa recent happening, yun pala wala ka pang idea. Now I know.

I know that you know that I have been dealing with anonymous guys eversince. Some, I mention to you. Some, I don't. But not even a single one gave too much impact on me because I know that I cannot just rely my opinions based from what they are saying. Maybe this last message hit me hard because I am missing you, and there has been some new things that are just happening to me and I'm missing my old me that was left on you.

I apologize if I believed immediately, but I'm not saying that I am believing you already. Although my heart says I do, but getting to the point, it's pointless. The issue has nothing to do with our present situation. We're not in a relationship, we're not together, and as I have said in my replies to some comments, hahayaan ko na lang. I guess, na-highlight lang yung part na nasaktan ako. Other than that, wala na.

It's been 3 years since we have known each other. We had a relationship, it ended, we went to different memorable places, we had conflicts, we shared a lot of memories, we remained friends. Almost 3 years Jay. Almost 3 years this coming June. I don't know why we still have this connection na di maputol putol. I tried to cut it but the chain is just built so strong I cannot even break it.

I cannot explain why I still have so much love for you inside my heart that even I try to forget you, I just can't. Although I'm done with the yearning part, and can live with the thought of we're no longer together, and survived, I don't know why I still care for you. And even if I meet tons of guys, it is still you that I want. Isn't that unfair?

I keep telling people that I'm over you. And yes, technically, I am. But when I ask myself if I will have a choice to choose the guy to be with forever, it is still you that I will choose. But again, that's my choice. You have made yours. I cannot change that. I cannot wait forever. I am still hoping while I can, but I cannot stuck my life with that idea.

If only I can tell my destiny to end up with you, I will do that. Where you can no longer do anything but follow the will of my fate. But that's out of the reality. I can only wish. I hope you get well with that wound, and start picking up things again after all the problems you faced, and still facing. Always remember that I am here. You know how to contact me.

We don't need to meet with that anonymous guy. I really don't care at all. And whether it's true that you are not in a relationship now or not, it should not affect me. I will be happy if you are so someone can take care of you, at the same time it will be sad for me, but only in the beginning. I have accepted so many truths in my life that this wouldn't eventually kill me. Believe me, I can deal with it.

Natawa naman ako how you ended your comment, napunta sa katawan ko. Haha. That was really funnee. Hindi ko ma-connect. Hehe. But don't worry, matagal na akong umiwas sa pork, tayo pa nun. Hindi mo lang alam na sinusunod ko lahat nang sinasabi mo. Ganun ka ka-impluwensya sa akin eh. Look at my kilay. Hehe.

Take care Jay...