December 26, 2008

Then Nathan asked...

Remember that Nathan already knows my blogsite? Oh well, one time when we were on the road, he asked me if I have a plan to post his picture with his face uncovered as it really looks funny with drawings in his face. I answered him yes. But I explained first why it wasn't yes yet.


(1st) The last time I had a blogsite and featured who was the person I'm having a relationship with, when it ended, everyone was mad at him. Since they know who he was, how he looks like, it made my ex feels so bad and made me feel like I have exposed him too much without his permission at the first place. I don't want to put Nathan this time in that position "just in case" things don't work well for us. In respect to the person lang. I learned my lesson.

(2nd) As people know me, I love putting mystery behind things. I wanna make people think. I want them to run their imaginations as freely as it can. Besides, there's no requirement to show his face in this site. If some don't like that fact, they are free not to visit my blogsite anymore. I want my readers to not so really think of how nathan looks, but see first his qualities than his face. But I guarantee you, he's a cute guy! (for me and for some hehe)

(3rd) I plan to show his face once we turn a year. That will be a true test in this love experiment. And that is worth exposing his face. Putting meaning in to something small but extravagant for me. No one can tell if we can last. If our relationship doesn't work, I don't want people to see him somewhere and tells him like Charlotte did in the Sex in the City movie when she bumped with Mr. Big on the street, "I cursed you on the day you were born!!!".

(4th) I wasn't really sure if he's okay with me posting his face in my blogsite. The fact that he doesn't know the site before as I am keeping it "secret" with him, there was no way for me to ask him if it's alright. So I decided to keep it covered.

Soon, his face will be revealed. I know some of you are asking. But, give it to TL as your christmas gift. Let nathan be the faceless partner of TL in your mind for now. For those who doesn't really know me, you will see him soon. Promise...

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