A Must Have

In search for the next big star, I am sticking now to the idea of finding someone who has a stable job. This is what I initially ask to a guy, siyempre in a discreet manner, if he has a job or none. Whether this is just a simple date or a possible love affair, I wanna make sure first if he has work. Mahirap nang ikaw lang ang magbayad sa date niyo. Hehe.

On a serious note, hindi naman issue sa akin kung ako lang ang magbabayad especially kung mahal mo yung tao, at kung meron ka namang pang-bayad for two. But that was my principle before. Ngayon, hindi na. It's not about wanting someone to pay for me, but having the thought na pareho kayong may work is such a good idea. There's more that you can do as partners kung madami kayong pera. Agree?

Sa akin, hindi importante na malaki ang sweldo or mataas ang posisyon. Basta may trabaho lang, okay na (siyempre, yung malinis na trabaho naman). Ako, kaya ko naman magpakilala nang partner sa mga friends kahit wala siyang trabaho. Ang hindi ko lang kayang isipin eh yung mararamdaman nang partner mo na pinapakilala o nakikilalang walang trabaho. I'm a guy too, And every guy has its own ego. Given na yan.

And I want the two of us to be productive. To have our own lives somehow. Mahirap yung isa may buhay sa labas tapos yung isa, ikaw lang ang buhay, sa'yo lang umiikot. Naranasan ko na yan before, it somehow worked, but in the end, it did not anymore. Kaya kahit gaano pa ka-gwapo ang nag-aayang mag-date, basta walang trabaho, pass na muna (feeling gwapo). I'm sticking to what I have decided.

You need to have a job first before we move forward...