Tatlong Daan

Minsan, naiisip ko kung ano ang pakiramdam nang alam mong "Kabit" ka. Yung tipong legitemate kabit. Hindi yung nalaman mo lang na kabit ka pala. Yung sinadyang kumabit ka. I am curious about that feeling. Oh! Walang magre-react ha. Curious lang ako. Kasi sila ang pinaka-masamang tao sa paningin nung legal na nagmamay-ari sa kinabitan.

I am curious about how it is for them. Paano ang lifestyle nila. Paano tumatakbo ang relasyon. Ano ang pinag-uusapan nila at hindi pwedeng pag-usapan. Hanggang saan ang boundary. Hanggang saan lang ang kaligayahan. Ang demands mo. Love is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Heaven indeed is the right word as described by many. Pero hell din naman if it gets ruined. The worse feeling ever in the world.

This entry is not about being kabit, or how to become a successful kabit. Wala akong masha-share dun. Hehe. This is actually a crazy thought of...

Three-way Relationship

Three men and one relationship. And each man openly professes his love and commitment to the other two guys. Three people loving each other at the same time, at the same level. Will it work? Is that even possible? According to a blogger who has a friend who's in this kind of relationship, it is possible. And the golden rule daw in this relationship is that nothing should be hidden or kept secret from any of the participants.


Na-curious lang ako. Again, hindi dahil gusto kong makisawsaw sa kung kanino mang relasyon (wink), but just thinking of the possibilities of that kind of relationship. Hindi kaya may comparison yun lagi? Pwede kayang same level lang ang love for each other? O may hihigit at hihigit? Paano ang quality time. Eh kung sa couple nga lang, may nagsta-struggle na sa quality time, paano pa kaya kung tatlo.

Paano pag may away? Eh di may magkakampihan? Siyempre, the other has to comfort each of them as part of his responsibilities. Paano ang biases niya?

But I'm also thinking, like in terms of sex, maganda kasi may variety. Haha. Kung gusto mo nang ganito today, you can have it with the one. Then if you want another one naman, dun naman sa isa. Hehe. Or household chores, mas madali ang mga gawaing bahay kung tatlo kayong naglilinis. Kung may umaaway sa'yo, dalawa ang reresbak. Sa mga bills naman, mas maliit ang contribution kasi tatlo kayong naghahati. Di ba masaya??? Hehe.

Kung may kailangan mag-out of town because of work, hindi ka maiiwanan mag-isa kasi may isa pang maiiwan. So hindi ka malulungkot. Kung confuse with something, may dalawang tao kang matatanungan. At least, hindi lang single idea. Kung wala ka nang pera, at kailangan mo, at wala na din yung isa, at least, meron ka pang isang option. Yung isa.

I'm just amazed how people redefine relationships nowadays. Lahat na nga siguro, posible. May mga na-try na rin akong iba't ibang klaseng relasyon, but not this one. I am curious, I admit that. But again, I'm just curious. If destiny will drag me to it, wala na akong magagawa. Hehe. Pero sa tingin ko naman, hindi. Selfish kaya ako. Hehe.

Basta. Basta. Basta. Bow!